Finding out you are pregnant when you didn’t plan for it can be very overwhelming. All sorts of thoughts go through your mind, and you may go into overdrive trying to think of a solution to what you feel might be a problem. If you are the kind of woman who does everything right, taking your birth control on time, making sure your partner wears a condom, an unexpected pregnancy may cause you to feel like your world is crashing. Do not be distraught by this, because it really isn’t the end of the world, and can be the beginning …